So this post is only mildly related to the title, I just love those lyrics (+44 - Baby, Come On)
Basically this is a rant / seek of approval / request for advice, comment(s) or advice in person GREATLY appreciated (hints J, GG, and DB)...
Ok, So I am considering breaking one of my cardinal rules of life. I always said never to make (or even begin to make) a move on a girl with a boyfriend...
Yesterday I met a great girl, we really hit it off, just clicked, and I was not the only on who noticed a connection like that I thought great, maybe things are picking up... then I heard the two-word phrase that made me sink inside... "her boyfriend"...
Now usually this is a clear walk away and give up... but here's how it's been layed down to me but someone relatively close to her: Her boyfriends a dick (he brings a gun to school...), he's been treating her like crap, and a lovely girl like her deserves a "good guy" (his words not mine) to treat her right... they are in relationship trouble, and I think you two would be great together...
So the big question is, does that make it ok? and to what extent is it ok? if indeed it IS ok...
I just don't know, I seem to feel that it's ok here, just get to know her well, get close, and see where it goes... I've even got a man on the inside helping with a good word to her sister, and I seemed to have made a good impression on her somehow :S
So while I know what I want to do... what SHOULD I do? ... thanks in advance,
Big love to you all
xxx
EDIT: The other thing I meant to touch on, is relating back to the last post, how much of a bastard does this make me for moving on before telling her... should I hold fire till I've had a proper talk, or is there no way to make this right...
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