So when giving advice of the heart, everyone seems to pussy-foot around, afraid of hurting people... but I've noticed something... It's going to cause a lot less hurt to just tell them straight and cut them loose...
Now I know I have no right to rant at others with this one... seeing as it's something I do myself... but at-least I'm aware of my guilt in this hypocrisy... and I'm sorry for doing it... from now on I'm going to try and cut the crap from now on...
So the little thing that set me off on this one is this... "It's just not the right time right now" ... now I've been wondering... is that "It's not the right time now, so hold on, and it will be later, don't give up" ... or is it "It's not going to happen, but I don't want to hurt your feeling with that knowledge too much"?... because if it was the second, I could handle it, like I could take wrecking ball to the face rejection at this early stage, but if I'm to hold on thinking it's a, only to find out later, when I'm alot more involved, that it is infact b, that will be alot more crushing...
So be clearer people... its the kinder thing to do!
Big love as always xxx
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