And awkward situation...

So I came off watching a video in full-screen today to this:

"hey, i know this is out of the blue but im having a bit of an arguement with my boyfriend and he said he isnt comfortable with how we talk to each other? i still want us to talk, your a good friend, but i dont want wrong ideas to be given out, this is sounding all messed up and ill explain over time, things are a bit complicated atm, i cant seem to do anything right."

So obviously I feel bad for causing trouble to a friend... and to clarify... I really haven't been flirting with her, just talking... so it was kinda confusing.

I decided to take the moral high-ground with this one and so I said sorry, I said I'd back off on the public chat, n she said that while she didn't see anything wrong, she thought that would be for the best. I then backed things up: "you gotta remember, his jealousy in this situation, is just a form of caring..."

So I then felt pretty good like I'd done the right thing in a situation where the overbearing jealous bf was in the wrong... but then I got to thinking... what if that was me at one point...

I mean, I had the girlfriend, talking with all the guys online... and I had to tell her that I wasn't happy with the way her and one of them was...

But that's only my point of view... what if they were then, like I am now...

Though for the record, she did cheat on me with him, so clearly I was at least some amount right.

So then I got thinking a bit more... and I started wondering what this could really mean? have I been over stepping the line? is he actually just being fair? or is she hiding feelings for me?... to be honest, I'm not totally sure what to do... or how to play this... advice anyone?

Big love in advance xxx

It's been an eventful day...

So for those of you that get the tweet, be it by twitter (@quotesandrants) or the facebook page, today may have left you with some questions. I hope to clear these up by way of a few rants

Well I'm fed the fuck up with mind games... If you wanna talk to me, do, wanna be my friend, do it, don't then don't... but it seriously pisses me off when you're lovely one minute, a massive bitch the next, then asking questions, prodding a sleeping bear just to see how it reacts... well today I snapped... and with style... when someone pisses me off so much and then does the whole "drop a bomb-shell and leave before it lands" well I lost my temper... I'm not proud of it, but I stand by my decision... and tore her a new one.

So why the fuck don't people try being real... say what you feel... stick by it... don't be false just to try and win all the wars... if you don't want the spoils, you don't need to be the victor... just be you.

It's funny how the instant the bear wakes up, you are sorry for poking it... and want to smooth things over with a lullaby and some hot coco (yes I extend my metaphors way too far)... yet up until then you're fine being a massive dick... great *rolls eyes*

So that was the main one I wanted to get out of my system, I may update with more detail to this if it's requested...

Big love till next time xxx

And at the end of the road, I'll hate to say I told you so...

So it seems that the world is finally catching on...

As you all should know, a while back I ranted about how people think they have fallen in love the instant they hold someone's hand, when in actuality they have no fucking clue. If you missed it (http://quotesandrants.blogspot.com/2010/03/better-to-have-loved-lost-and-then.html) - which lead to one of my most quoted rant segments "If it didn't hurt, then it wasn't love, and anal doesn't count".

Well it seems that the rest of the world has finally caught on, or atleast the 140thousand of them who agree with the following statement on mikeandlike.com: "I love him." "How long have you been dating?" " 2 days" "You're an idiot."

Now please don't think that this is a plug, or advertising... I don't suggest that you "like" it, and I certainly won't be. But it's nice to know that even if it's now months and months down the road... people ARE starting to catch-on... so perhaps it's not quite as the great Philip DeFranco says, and common sense ISN'T dead...

Until Next time, big love xxx

Just Clearing Something Up...

So while a lot of you know me, this blog IS anonymous... and while I will happily answer any further questions by txt, msn, or asking me one-to-one... DON'T ask me over a pint in the pub, or say "I read your blog today who was that about?" ... and this isn't directed at one only, so don't feel bad, just respect the privacy, bacause essentially, if it stops being detached from me, then the content wont be as good, simple as... so help me to help you...

Big Love anyways tho xxx

Back to a little slice of the angry...

So it's been far too long since something's gotten me wound up enough to have a serious rant about it... but that day has finally come...

It pisses me off so much how some guys treat good girls like utter shit... and how some things are so fucking backwards!

How can you not no... or not even care when you are so clearly (if not intentionally) hurting someone you claim you love!?!?!?! is it not so fucking blatant to you that cant understand it through that thick skull...

Now while this is a general outburst of anger... it is directed at two people in particular... one breaks up with his girlfriend, via facebook... after cheating on her, and begging her for forgiveness... then just stops talking to her and that's it... The other... captain insensitive, treats his girl like shit, doesn't care about her feelings, always goes on about other women to her, gets angry with her when she tries to talk to him about it...

Now I'm not sure I should even publish this one because it is relatively clear who it's aimed at is you have them as mutual friends... So if you clock it easily then let me know and I'm make it more subtle or just hide it from the facebook page

To keep it more general though... it sickens me how guys treat girls sometimes... it gives the rest of us a bad name... those few of us that actually give a shit (u n me JC :P ) and even those who HAVE to play the game to win (DoucheBag ;)) ... and why do it?... what do you actually achieve?... surely its not any more dificult for you to treat them well, so that they will be happy... surely that will make you happy? or is your happiness directly proportional to your ego? which is in turn grown for every inch of happiness you suffocate out of those around you?... or is that too harsh?

I'll probably tweak this as my mood progresses... so will tweet the updates making full use of RSS grafiti

Until then...

QOTD

This is me calling you out.
You want to talk like a man, then be a man.
Stop talking like you're something.
It's funny how you always have so much to say but it's never to our faces.
I'm right here...

QOTD

Love: The step in a relationship that is followed by heartbreak.

Ceremonial Burning...

So for those of you who follow the twitter or the fanpage then you will have notices the update "Ceremonial burning of things ftw..." Well now I take a small step out to explain this one... so yer, this is emotional, personal, and lacking in Quotes and Rants...

For those of you who don't know, I was engaged at the age of 16... it's not something I'm proud of, and it's not something I would recommend to anyone one whose young and in "love" because you are just too young...

Anyways, needless to say the whole thing went sour, and we ended... badly. One thing that people kept asking me was "Did you get the ring back"... I didn't, it seemed insensitive to ask for it at the time... and I didn't want to see her to ask afterwards tbh.

I did however still have one of the many mementoes and "memories" (little insignificant pieces of crap by the masses) that I had aquired while we were together... one such of these was the little tag with the size of the ring, and the packet that the box came in.

I though I had boxed up and lofted anything I had (I couldn't deal with it at the time) but today amidst a hug clean-up I found aforementioned reminders...

So wrongly or rightly I decided to burn them, I had a candle glass and a sun-melted candle, combined all parts with a few matches and watched the fucker burn... yes I am somewhat I pyromaniac... but that's besides the point..

Hopefully this will be cutting lose on an emotional tether, or maybe just made me feel good at the time... who know's I'm keep you posted

Big love if you made it this far xxx

QOTD

If it's worth having, then it's worth risking what you have already...