Tuesday, 20 July 2010

And awkward situation...

So I came off watching a video in full-screen today to this:

"hey, i know this is out of the blue but im having a bit of an arguement with my boyfriend and he said he isnt comfortable with how we talk to each other? i still want us to talk, your a good friend, but i dont want wrong ideas to be given out, this is sounding all messed up and ill explain over time, things are a bit complicated atm, i cant seem to do anything right."

So obviously I feel bad for causing trouble to a friend... and to clarify... I really haven't been flirting with her, just talking... so it was kinda confusing.

I decided to take the moral high-ground with this one and so I said sorry, I said I'd back off on the public chat, n she said that while she didn't see anything wrong, she thought that would be for the best. I then backed things up: "you gotta remember, his jealousy in this situation, is just a form of caring..."

So I then felt pretty good like I'd done the right thing in a situation where the overbearing jealous bf was in the wrong... but then I got to thinking... what if that was me at one point...

I mean, I had the girlfriend, talking with all the guys online... and I had to tell her that I wasn't happy with the way her and one of them was...

But that's only my point of view... what if they were then, like I am now...

Though for the record, she did cheat on me with him, so clearly I was at least some amount right.

So then I got thinking a bit more... and I started wondering what this could really mean? have I been over stepping the line? is he actually just being fair? or is she hiding feelings for me?... to be honest, I'm not totally sure what to do... or how to play this... advice anyone?

Big love in advance xxx

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