You're a Fucking Idiot!

Surely you see how what you say and do hurts her? It's not big. It's not clever. It's just insensitive. And even if it was "funny", is it really worth it at the cost of the feelings of someone you care about?

I get that everyone messes up. It's not like I'm expecting you to be better than human. But when you mess up, you apologise to those you hurt, and you do your best not to do it again. It's not something you bait her with when she's hurting.

Maybe I'm a fool for thinking this way... but it just seems like common decency to me.

So I'm topping this one off with some balance because I realise this works both ways.